When I was 16 there was a boy that I was, to put it frankly, obsessed with. We had been in the same high school since the age of 11, but it wasn’t until Year 10 that we started having lessons together and my longing for him began.
We became good friends, speaking every day…
It was a normal Friday night in Oxford in March 2019. As usual, my flatmates and I decided to go out clubbing. This involved getting way too drunk in an attempt to forget life's troubles.
I had just lost my virginity earlier that year and, for some reason, I thought that gave me some sort…
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I was writing moody short stories and living in a tiny house with six girls by the river in Exeter. She (let’s call her F) was living in the uni’s second fanciest halls and working on her Harry Potter Society presidency campaign. It was a classic love story.
We’d been seeing each other for a…
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Q. I’m moving into my mid-twenties and suddenly all my friends have partners and it feels…
They say a woman’s intuition is never wrong, but I believe a horny man’s is far superior. I’d barely thought of T for the past month, feeling vaguely pleased with his lack of interaction. I’d relaxed at the thought of his absence, relieved by his slow fading from my life.
T seemed to possess clairvoyant…
It was a crisp Wednesday night in Canterbury city centre. The town was awash with the scent of half price jagerbombs and VKs. There was a sense of anticipation in the air: who would be getting with who in the dark, sticky corners of Club Chemistry tonight?
I decided, as I hopped on the ‘Chem…
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“I had no desire for sex, but I knew he did and that made me feel terrible,” says 25-year-old Nina*, one of the many people to suffer sexual dysfunction as a side effect of antidepressants.
During her first months on antidepressants, Nina was in a relationship. Her boyfriend was understanding of her low sex…
Ah, the ick. A now-infamous term that embodies the one thing about a person you can’t see past, leading you to almost instant and irreversible repulsion. Maybe your worst ick is your date running onto the tube and the doors staying open for minutes afterwards, or someone who chews loudly. Perhaps you think more outside…